Monday, December 21, 2009
4.Whoa!
But, any time that I felt like giving up, I always had a voice saying that I could do it, whether it was in the form of Post-It from Amy on my desk, or a flat out, "You cannot quit" from Justin or my mom. I even had Akbar, via Skype, telling me that he knew I could do it, I just had to believe in myself. In spite of it all, I somehow found the inner strength to take one more deep breath & to keep going.
I knew that the first semester wouldn't be easy, that it would take a lot of hard work and sacrifices, but I also knew that in the end, I would be proud of myself. In the past four months, I have gained more confidence than I have in the past 26 years. I have not only impressed myself, but apparently, I have impressed nurses (instructors, charge nurses & floor nurses) as well.
Honestly, I have not felt any greater joy than opening up that e-mail on Friday afternoon. I not only survived my first semester, but I did it with straight A's. No matter what happens, that is something that will never be taken away from me.
I have always been my worst critic. The tears that streamed down my face on Friday afternoon were from years of hard work & heartbreak. But, I did it. And I did it with a 4.0.
1 semester down, 3 to go.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Mental Health Rotation
Monday, October 26, 2009
Sick & Tired
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Teeth!
Monday, October 19, 2009
Exhausted & Overwhelmed
I have a 30+ page gerontology paper to do by Wednesday morning, a quiz to study for & my careplan due from last week's patients.
Well, I need to get to work on figuring out where to begin - and something tells me that it should be my gero paper...
As my 82 year old patient told me, "Don't get old - it's terrible, just terrible."
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Hospital Week #6
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Hospital - Week #4
Wednesday afternoon, I picked out my “elderly” patient – since I have to write a paper & went home to bundle up for Justin’s water polo game. I know, I know, I should have stayed home & worked on my patient’s careplan instead, but I just couldn’t help myself. I refused to listen to my mom (which generally, isn’t a good idea…) & I went to the game. As I’m driving into Santa Ana, I realized that my Google Maps application isn’t working on my Blackberry. Great, just great. The game is about to start in 5 minutes, so it’s not like I can call Justin and ask him what street the school is on. After ending up near Mater Dei – I realized that I was totally lost – turned around and turned left onto some random street with a familiar name. I made it! Now, I just have to figure out what is going on. I’m getting better at understanding the game – but I still have a long way to go.
After freezing in a long-sleeved shirt, hooded sweatshirt & jacket, and watching the varsity boys win – it’s time to head home to do my careplan….and get ready for a busy two days.
So, the 2 alarm clock idea has worked well – and I wasn’t late at all this week. For the first time, I have a nurse who completely takes me under her wing all day – even to the point where she invites me to take breaks with her. I help her pour Stroke Lady’s crushed up meds into her G-tube. (She has problems swallowing – so all of her meds get crushed up and are inserted directly into her stomach through a tube.) Later, she allows me to “spike” the bag for the tube feeding, which is basically like spiking an IV bag. My classmates are excited and a few of them admit to being jealous when I tell them what I got to do. One hasn’t really gotten to give that many injections, I tell her that my patient has 3 – so maybe she will be able to do some tomorrow.
Thursday was also our midterm evaluations. I always get nervous when it comes to performance evaluations – I don’t know why. It doesn’t matter if it’s at Advanced Wellness or at Ken Clark or sitting in a conference room at Western Medical Center. It’s like I’m afraid that something bad is going to happen & I haven’t been able to prepare myself for it.
Well, nothing bad happens. As a matter of fact, my professor gives me what you could say – glowing – remarks. She tells me that she can see that I was meant to be a nurse – that I have the drive & the compassion to be a great nurse. I almost cry. She also tells me that I need to go on and get my Master’s degree so that I can teach. I almost cry again.
The nurse that I worked with today tells me that she could see me working in the ER or ICU – not on “a boring floor.” She says that she can see that I have great potential. As I say goodbye to my patient – she pulls me closer to her – so that I can hear her. She tells me that I am going to be a great nurse because I really care. I almost cry again!
I have worked so hard to get myself where I am today – I have been to the bottom and crawled my way back up to the top. Many of you were there to support me through it & I am so grateful for that. I spent the majority of the summer completely freaking out about this terrific opportunity that I’ve been presented with. I was afraid that I would fail and disappoint not only myself, but all of you.
During the past eight weeks, I have learned more about myself than I ever have before. It hasn’t been perfect, there have been a lot of tears and “freak outs.” But whenever I thought that I might not be able to do this, I have always had at least one person to tell me that I can. Whether it’s reminding me that there are hundreds, if not thousands, of other people wanting to be in my position as a nursing student at Saddleback (thanks, Justin) or asking me if I really want to be a secretary for the rest of my life (thanks, Mom) or just telling me that they have faith in me & I just need to have faith in myself (thank you to everyone!) - I have been able to find the drive deep down inside of me to keep pushing through.
I found the similar drive on Sunday morning. At Mile 10, Amy & I start cramping up & feel practically every fiber in our muscles stretching and pulling. We never really thought about giving up - I knew that we could do it. As we actually jogged/ran that last ½ mile towards the finish line – we accomplished something that a lot of people didn’t think that we could (myself included.) We finished our first half marathon. As we cross the finish line – holding hands & jumping in the air – I almost cry again.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Hospital Day #5
Two scenarios run through my mind as I thumb through zillions of papers in my notebook, “Where is Barbara’s number? What am I going to say to her? Should I just tell her I’m sick and take the whole day off?” Whew. I find her number. Before I know it, my clinical instructor answers her phone. “Barbara, it’s Amanda…” The tears start creeping up into the corners of my eyes and my voice starts to break – “I just woke up…I don’t know what happened…What do you want me to do?” Barbara calmly, almost comically asks, “How fast can you get here without breaking any speeding limits?” “It will take me 30 minutes to get there…I can be there in 45 minutes.” She sweetly says, “Calm down and stop your tears…be here by 8:00.”
A huge sigh of relief escapes as I get ready to face my day. I realize that I only would have been hurting myself if I would have lied about being sick. After all, I stayed up (and Skyped with Hillary) and did my homework, including an extensive patient workup. I didn’t do all of that work for nothing!
I put my white scrubs on and then start the process of ‘putting on my face.’ I giggle to myself as I remember Akbar telling me, “Amanda, it’s makeup – not magic.” Well, it’s definitely magic this morning! It doesn’t help with the bad hair day, but whatever.
I walk into the nurse’s station at 7:35. My nurse doesn’t even seem to notice that I’m there an hour late. Awesome! She goes with me so that we can introduce ourselves to my patient. Before I know it, the lunch trays are here. I’ve already given my patient approximately 5 medications PO (which means “by mouth”) J along with three injections. I’m starting to feel a little comfortable with a needle in my hand…watch out!
The charge nurse is talking with my patient’s “roommate.” The post-motorcycle accident guy will be going home later today. Diabetic guy will be around until at least Monday. “Excuse me, Mark” I find myself saying to the charge nurse. I scoot past him and the door – Diabetic guy’s lunch tray in hand. BAM! Coffee and chocolate pudding are on the floor and have splashed up all over my white scrubs. I can feel my face turning as red as the sharps container hanging on the wall. Mark, the charge nurse, doesn’t laugh at all. “This happens all of the time!! I’ve ripped tons of scrubs with that stupid thing.” I’m playing everything back in my head. My sleeve got caught on the door handle, when I moved, everything else moved, but me. Mark goes and grabs some towels to clean up my mess. As he walks back into the room, BAM! His sleeve gets stuck too. I’m still wondering if he did that for my benefit. I giggle to myself wondering what Justin is going to say when he hears this!
I clean everything up and replace Diabetic guy’s cup of coffee. I run off to join my classmates at lunch and feel the need to instruct them about watching out for those trick door handles! They all say that they can barely notice the coffee, which has now dried onto my scrubs. It’s true – you only see it if it’s pointed out. But, I know it’s there and feel like everyone’s watching me!
After about 90 more minutes with Diabetic guy, I tell him that I’ll see him in the morning. He responds, “I’ll see you tomorrow, God willing.”
He instantly reminds me of my best friend, Akbar, who always says, “Insah Allah (if God wills it).
As soon as I get home, I ask Gabe if he has any Spray & Wash and declare that I’m going to need a lot of it.
He looks at my scrubs and laughs as I give him the rundown of what happened.
As I walk to the laundry room, a little boy and his parents are walking to the pool. He stops on the sidewalk and says, “Hey girl! Are you coming to the pool too?” “No – I have to do some laundry because I have to get up really early tomorrow.” “Girl, what’s your name?” “Amanda. What’s yours’?” “Joseph.”
I look at Joseph and his sweet little smile helps me remember why I chose to be a nurse – a pediatric nurse. Insah Allah.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Hospital Day #1
You take a deep breath and you walk through the doors
It's the morning of your very first day
And you say hi to your friends you ain't seen in a while
Try and stay out of everybody's way
As I’m turning left in the hospital parking lot, I realize that I am following one of my classmates. What a huge relief to see another fellow marshmallow! (At least that’s what I feel like in my all white scrubs!) We somehow make it to the cafeteria – where we were early for our first meeting. After a few hours of paperwork and discussing why we actually want to be nurses, including how we felt about our first day, we go on the tour of the hospital. We all giggle as a patient made cattle noises when we walked by. Seriously, we were a herd of student nurses in white scrubs.
My group is the last group to get “dropped off” at our floor. Our instructor shares a laugh with an RN and then assigns me to her. She doesn’t seem too opposed to be taking a student under her wing for the day (or so I like to think.) We are introduced to two other RNs who will be supervising two of my classmates on the floor. We meet the charge nurse, who is surprisingly very helpful and welcoming. As soon as introductions are made, we shyly smile and rush off to do our scavenger hunt. We start the morning having absolutely no idea where anything is.
“Where is the supply room?” “I don’t know – I haven’t seen it.” Within thirty minutes, we have the codes to the supply rooms, as well as to the medication room, and have an RN who is helping us “cheat.” We have already asked questions that stumped at least one RN and the charge nurse. He seems proud when he tells us that the water main shut off is done by the engineer and that the valves are in the ceiling. (He didn’t know this information previously and we were a little shocked that he followed up on his promise to find out for us.)